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Post by misilon1 on May 23, 2007 12:22:41 GMT 12
hehe! heck,.!! ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Post by therese on May 24, 2007 19:18:33 GMT 12
Miss Ilon, Forgive me because I am not mands but the agony aunt seems to have gone awol so I thought I would try to answer. I have drawn up a colour picture of your overall 'look' - and I think what is lacking for your lips is a glossy number by Revlon called "Tantalising Tangerine" - available all good cosmetic counters. However - if you are a transvestite ( the waxing of the face you mentioned) I so understand and relate to this gender issue but I am afraid if that is the case you cannot possibly deviate from the norm - "Scarlett O'Hara" by Max Factor is de rigeur!! - darling
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Post by manuela on May 24, 2007 20:00:19 GMT 12
Miss Ilon, Forgive me because I am not mands but the agony aunt seems to have gone awol so I thought I would try to answer. I have drawn up a colour picture of your overall 'look' - and I think what is lacking for your lips is a glossy number by Revlon called "Tantalising Tangerine" - available all good cosmetic counters. However - if you are a transvestite ( the waxing of the face you mentioned) I so understand and relate to this gender issue but I am afraid if that is the case you cannot possibly deviate from the norm - "Scarlett O'Hara" by Max Factor is de rigeur!! - darling you beauty!!!!!!!!
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Post by misilon1 on May 25, 2007 17:34:39 GMT 12
ohh my my now that bought a smile to my face ,...Hmmm maybe if you ask nicely Kim might give you a job ,...I like it ,..hehe!!,..
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Post by misilon1 on Jun 11, 2007 22:22:12 GMT 12
Mands where are you ? there is this continuous drip in here,..its driving me wild,..it drips all over the place and wherever it goes causes a few other drips to appear as well,.. Ive just had a drink of my raspberry treat and it’s dripped all over my blouse where my breasts are ,…Ps I say “breasts” because theyre not bustybosoms yet,. so that anyone who bumps into me wont bounce off them so easily.. They’re still separate and and can have a sneaky little cleavage with the right help.,…. while I may not have the a “come and play look’ anymore at least it dosent scream get outa my way yet oooohh,!! ;D any way back to the drip ,..now where was I,… oh yes the drip is a constant worry because ,……..hey I didn’t realize nail polish drips as well there are drips on a couple of my keyboard keys gee wiz and I havent got nail polish remover nemine 2moro , yeah so now its raining harder and that drip is more persistant ,…… by the way mands .reflecting on the effects of being abused as a child, “I know It doesn’t go away because you move out or get married,…. the abusive household is the cause of so many kids growing up with negative expectations,… some try to and even perfect as a form of protection,….rigid defences. Unless you have experienced it, One can’t begin to understand the devastation it wreaks on a person’s life the scariest part is not knowing what provokes the abusers outbursts All forms of abuse teach poisonous lessons and if it does not get attended to sadly become’s deeply entrenched by the time of adulthood. self-hatred, guilt, dread, and overwhelming feelings of worthlessness are the unbearable effects and so much more,..meantime I really need to do something about that drip ,..help me to get some work done on the things I have mentioned in here ok,..
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Post by misilon1 on Jun 12, 2007 9:01:40 GMT 12
hope you will be back soon Mands but more to the point just wanna know if you are ok ,..miss you ,...
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Post by Suzie on Jun 12, 2007 9:20:00 GMT 12
Mands where are you ? there is this continuous drip in here,..its driving me wild,..it drips all over the place and wherever it goes causes a few other drips to appear as well,.. Ive just had a drink of my raspberry treat and it’s dripped all over my blouse where my breasts are ,…Ps I say “breasts” because theyre not bustybosoms yet,. so that anyone who bumps into me wont bounce off them so easily.. They’re still separate and and can have a sneaky little cleavage with the right help.,…. while I may not have the a “come and play look’ anymore at least it dosent scream get outa my way yet oooohh,!! ;D any way back to the drip ,..now where was I,… oh yes the drip is a constant worry because ,……..hey I didn’t realize nail polish drips as well there are drips on a couple of my keyboard keys gee wiz and I havent got nail polish remover nemine 2moro , yeah so now its raining harder and that drip is more persistant ,…… by the way mands .reflecting on the effects of being abused as a child, “I know It doesn’t go away because you move out or get married,…. the abusive household is the cause of so many kids growing up with negative expectations,… some try to and even perfect as a form of protection,….rigid defences. Unless you have experienced it, One can’t begin to understand the devastation it wreaks on a person’s life the scariest part is not knowing what provokes the abusers outbursts All forms of abuse teach poisonous lessons and if it does not get attended to sadly become’s deeply entrenched by the time of adulthood. self-hatred, guilt, dread, and overwhelming feelings of worthlessness are the unbearable effects and so much more,..meantime I really need to do something about that drip ,..help me to get some work done on the things I have mentioned in here ok,.. That is so true Misi, to take it that one step further. When a child is abused on an ongoing basis it actually alters the chemical reactions in their brain. That chemical change remains for life and conditions you to always react in the same manner to the same stimuli. Whereas, if as a child you were not regularly abused, and then as an adult you suddenly find yourself in a violent situation, this would be unfamiliar to you, and your brains chemical reactions would instruct you to protect yourself. For the abused child, as an adult, the brains response is the same as that done previously, and so the person reacts in the same manner they did previously. This can be overcome, but it means overriding the brains actual chemical response, which is damn hard work, and requires firstly the recognition that this happens.
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Post by Suzie on Jun 12, 2007 9:23:47 GMT 12
Anyway, Dear Mands,
I have to go to the hospital for some tests today and tomorrow before my big op soon. I'm particularly concerned about having to hang about in a public place wearing one of those horrible hospital gowns, with my butt hanging out all over the place!! What concerns me most, is that someone might think this is a fashion choice for me, and I want to make sure it is known I don't wear this type of garment unless necessary.
Honestly, how does one retain ones pride and dignity when wearing those things. I'm wondering if I keep my hi heels on, whether the outfit will take on an aire of glamour? Or should I just brush my hair over my face, go bare footed and hope that no one recognises my butt?
Need your advice urgently.
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Post by Dalbyj on Jun 12, 2007 19:52:58 GMT 12
May I butt in here and offer my advice?
Too bad, I'm going to anyway ;D ;D
4 words - Double Sided Sticky Tape ;D ;D
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Post by Suzie on Jun 12, 2007 20:24:21 GMT 12
May I butt in here and offer my advice? Too bad, I'm going to anyway ;D ;D 4 words - Double Sided Sticky Tape ;D ;D NOw you tell me, too late, my dignity is lost!
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Post by misilon1 on Jun 13, 2007 12:59:01 GMT 12
May I butt in here and offer my advice? Too bad, I'm going to anyway ;D ;D 4 words - Double Sided Sticky Tape ;D ;D NOw you tell me, too late, my dignity is lost! OI TAKE IT ELSEWHERE !!!! *screams* ;D
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Post by Suzie on Jun 13, 2007 17:47:34 GMT 12
what? Take my dignity elsewhere? Sheesh, isn't there already enough out there without any? Besides I had the doctor check, my dignity is still intact!!! So there.
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Post by ladypenelope on Jun 13, 2007 19:36:48 GMT 12
For next time.......... the answer is so simple........... that's probably why it wasn't thought of Wear two gowns!!!! One covering the front and tied at the back........ and the second covering the back and tied at the front ............. Now...... isn't that an absolutely brilliant simple solution?
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Post by meandog on Jun 13, 2007 19:50:13 GMT 12
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Post by ladypenelope on Jun 13, 2007 20:15:04 GMT 12
When ones dignity is at stake, who give a toss about the laundry?
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Post by Suzie on Jun 13, 2007 20:55:10 GMT 12
When ones dignity is at stake, who give a toss about the laundry? Exactly ! good idea, will remember that one.
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Post by misilon1 on Jun 17, 2007 14:03:30 GMT 12
hi mands ,...its that time again and Ive waxed fur face ,..plucked eyebrows and nicely re-coloured my hair again,..tho its time for me to make an appointment to have it shaped again,..
ahh the pains of being a public figure, both at work and in the field service ministry from house to house,.....and the 5 meetings a week at the hall,..... my mum thinks its all wonderful that Im so active,..because I take her all the news from around town to her doorstep,...
its been a source of wonder to her that I am actually attempting to knit something ( meandogs hat),..and... I cannot tell her the circumstances that has brought this about,... I have spared her the details which would only be confusing for her, not to speak of that it would probably worry her hahaha!!!,.....or hey she may even demand to know who he is and if she can meet him,.. ohhhh dear these webs that we do weave huh?? **waves to meandog**!! I promise you are safe *giggles* ,.....
Mands hurry back get better soon,....just wanted to leave you another note to let you know,..another one of the boring in the life of ,...
,,,,Ciao mands ,..
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Post by misilon1 on Jun 17, 2007 14:08:13 GMT 12
I do hope you will be able to answer my note soon,... I love ur wit, I love ur ability with careful words, for the one you are talking to ,..
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Post by ladypenelope on Jun 17, 2007 18:01:01 GMT 12
I do hope you will be able to answer my note soon,... I love ur wit, I love ur ability with careful words, for the one you are talking to ,.. I'll second that
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Post by Manukarose on Jun 22, 2007 9:12:51 GMT 12
Miss Ilon, Forgive me because I am not mands but the agony aunt seems to have gone awol so I thought I would try to answer. I have drawn up a colour picture of your overall 'look' - and I think what is lacking for your lips is a glossy number by Revlon called "Tantalising Tangerine" - available all good cosmetic counters. However - if you are a transvestite ( the waxing of the face you mentioned) I so understand and relate to this gender issue but I am afraid if that is the case you cannot possibly deviate from the norm - "Scarlett O'Hara" by Max Factor is de rigeur!! - darling I fully concur with Therese here, (PS thank u sweetheart for looking after the thread in my absence) - I could be tempted to add though some gawdy glitter bits stuck on to the lower lip to emphasize you have made an effort to go over the top with your makeup. xxx
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